Dressing and hairstyles reflect a person's morality? It's ridiculous! There are some who love to judge and stereotype the others using their own yardstick. Then, how should one dress to be morally right? One shouldn't wear too sexily, one shouldn't colour one's hair, one shouldn't wear coloured contact lenses etc. Those who lay such rules are those who daren't try anything but are envious of those who do so.



How do we define sexy? Sexy is in the eye of the beholder. Sexy is a mental state that only exists in one's mind. It's subjective and intangible. On the other hand, what's wrong of being sexy? The negative connotation that is being attached to this word is destructive to the youngsters' minds. It's the adults who pollute the minds of the young by being judgemental.



What is the essential element of a person's morality? The appearance or the actions?

At times there are too many moral police around to catch the 'offenders'; however, those moral police haven't realised their own actions are not so morally right. One examplary case: a woman who has got too intimate with a married man. She feels 'pampered' whenever the 'boy friend' is around to help her. She has been going out with this friend to the extent that those who don't know them would think that they were husband and wife. Well, she is appointed as a moral police to check the others' dressing. What an irony! Nobody dares to talk about her intimate 'friendship' with the man, or should it be that nobody is interested?



The world is full or ironies!